Can We Stop The Bully With Relaxation Music?
What is a bully?
In my opinion a bully is someone who has low self-esteem, who for one reason or another feels a sense of power when he or she picks on someone weaker than themselves. When a bully sees the fear in their preys eyes, that gives them a great amount of power. The relaxation music we discuss here is for the victim not the bully.
For the sake of this report you need to understand the bully we will be referring to here is a person who enjoys picking on weaker people but not someone who would escalate to serious violent behavior such as the use of weapons with the intent to kill.
My cousins son was a victim to a bully, all through his junior high school years, there was this one particular person who encouraged his own friends to help him pick on my cousins son.
There were many school meetings with all the people involved, sitting in a room to attempt to have this situation mediated. After all the meetings the bullying still continued.
One Saturday my cousins son was in our local music store and there was instrumental music playing in the background. He immediately wanted to purchase a CD of this music as he thought it would be a great tool to help him fall to sleep at night. As a result of very little sleep plus the continued bullying, his grades were seriously being affected.
As you can imagine at the age of 13 years, his life was in more turmoil than most young kids his age.
Once he started using this relaxation music to help him fall asleep, within a few days he started feeling much better physically. Although he was still having challenges with the bullying it was not as bad since he was in a better frame of mind to handle it.
Without even realizing it, this 13 year old boy created his very own relaxation technique with instrumental music which he loved to listen to. In fact it became a habit when things started to stress him out he would go to his room and instead of watching TV he would listen to relaxation music.
The happy ending to this story is the relaxation technique worked so well he was able to bring his marks from high 40’s to low 80’s. Also the bullying eventually stopped as they weren’t getting to him any more so they moved on to someone else and eventually were suspended from school for their actions.
To this day my cousins son continues to practice relaxation therapy with various types of relaxation music.
Sincerely,
Carl Tambeau
Founder of Healing Music Emporium
Founder of Pro Marketing Resource
Co-Founder of The Health Hub System
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